How the little courtesies of life on the surface of society, deemed so important from man towards woman, fade into utter insignificance in view of the deeper tragedies in which she must play her part alone, where no human aid is possible.

Elizabeth Cady Stanton
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The famous writer, Charlotte Brontë, wrote, “How the little courtesies of life on the surface of society, deemed so important from man towards woman, fade into utter insignificance in view of the deeper tragedies in which she must play her part alone, where no human aid is possible.” This is the first line of the poem “The Governess” by Charlotte Brontë. Following that line is a list of examples of common courtesies that are quickly forgotten in the course of ordinary life.

Source: Solitude Of Self

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